I’m going through life transitions. I'm in perimenopause, my oldest daughter is leaving for college. I really wanted to focus on myself after spending many years giving a lot of myself as a mom. Now that my kids are older, things are changing. I needed to rediscover myself; who I am, and what I want. I knew I needed to reinvigorate my life!
Before I took this course, I wasn't sure I knew what I liked. I’d wonder, “What would I want to do if I didn't have to answer to anybody? If I wasn't worried about what my husband wanted to do? If I wasn't worried about what my kids wanted to do?” It was time to rediscover my own interests, my own desires and needs. For too long I'd pushed away my interests and desires to serve others. I was hoping to recapture some of my own passion for my life.
At first, I was worried about what feelings might come up by thinking more deeply about myself and my needs.
I’m so glad I signed up—through the course, I found the support I was looking for and so much more! The course was definitely transformational for me. I’ve reconnected with myself, my desires and passions. I feel so resourced now! I have a lot of tools to turn to when I'm feeling anxious or frustrated—to understand and ground myself. Plus I’m getting back in touch with nature and spirituality,
My capacity to understand myself and my feelings has expanded tremendously—rather than just feeling yucky and trying to push my feelings aside. Now I am more in touch with my feelings and the needs underneath. I am able to ask myself, what can I do to fulfill those needs, which of my strategies are working for me . . . and which longer serve me?
Before, when I used to start feeling annoyed in my relationships, I had a tendency to blame others. Now that I have these tools, those difficult conversations are so much easier for me. Rather than getting caught up in blaming or negativity, I can stay calm and connected with myself as well as the other person.
When I signed up, I was worried about whether I would really dedicate the time to this. I decided to dedicate my weekend mornings to my coursework, while my family was still asleep. I enjoyed sitting on my deck with some tea in those early morning hours to focus on my internal world—often eye-opening, exciting at times, other times difficult. Always valuable. I’m so grateful I carved out the time to work through even the areas that felt challenging in the moment.
I really love the format––it’s very reminiscent of an in person class . . . the care of putting this all together is very evident.
If you’re wondering whether to take this course, I highly recommend it––it's definitely worth it! Even if you're not quite sure what you’re looking for, you’ll find incredibly powerful support and insight—that you didn’t even realize you needed! So just jump in, be open to it and see where your journey takes you.